by Purpose

At Lodha, we believe that the holidays are as much about reflection as they are about indulgence: a chance to pause, savour moments with the people who matter most and make choices that feel thoughtful and deeply personal. This issue embraces that philosophy wholeheartedly, offering a considered guide to navigating the final weeks of the year with clarity and intention.

We begin with wisdom from Dr Paul Hokemeyer, whose work with global leaders offers a rare window into the emotional terrain of family life during the holidays. As he reminds us, even the most joyful rituals can stir old dynamics and new anxieties. His counsel, centred on clear boundaries, gentle curiosity and an emphasis on connection, provides a grounding framework for approaching the season with intention. In his view, the greatest gift we can offer ourselves is presence, the ability to step back, breathe and choose how we show up for the people we love.

That same spirit of purpose runs through our in-depth conversation with Rebecca Priestley, whose career in the royal household has placed her at the centre of some of the most thoughtful giving in the UK today. Priestley’s reflections illuminate a rapidly evolving landscape where donors seek not only impact but meaning, a sense that their actions are aligned with their values and lived experience. Her four-part approach, centred on connection, clarity, curiosity and commitment, offers a template for giving that enriches both giver and recipient. It is a timely reminder that generosity, at its best, is transformative on both sides.

This issue also brings you two distinct gift guides. Our ‘The Art of Intentional Gifting’ edit highlights makers, artisans and maisons whose creations carry stories worth passing on, from bespoke scents rooted in memory to finebound books crafted to last for generations. Each piece is chosen not simply for its beauty but for the intention it represents.

Alongside it, our ‘Family Time and Travel Gift Guide’ explores experiences that elevate time together into something unforgettable. Whether stepping into the Egyptian twilight for an immersive archaeological adventure, wandering through MoMA after dark or retreating to a mountain refuge with panoramic Alpine views, these journeys invite families to exchange presents for presence and create memories that far outlive the season’s glitter.

We are also delighted to spotlight Bonheur, the newly opened Mayfair restaurant from acclaimed chef Matt Abé. Located in the storied former home of La Gavroche, Bonheur bridges classical French technique with the ease and warmth of Abé’s Australian roots. Its craft-driven menus and beautifully considered interiors offer a festive dining experience that feels both celebratory and deeply welcoming.

As we reflect on a busy year across our London developments, from the opening of new show apartments at Holland Park Gate to the many moments shared with residents, our teams look forward to celebrating the season alongside you. From all of us at Lodha, we wish you a purposeful, joyful and beautifully memorable festive season.